Alice Teo a.k.a Mrs Lai Lesson of Life #1

Today while having Chinese.. for one hour Miss Lee a.k.a Mrs Lai said that she wanted to go through a passage with us.. it was impossible for her.. you shd come to her lessons it is kinda slack.. coz she talks and we listen.. we ended talking about one sentence from the passage and she side-tracked to talking bout having a relationship in JC..

She totally ignored the sweet, romantic part.. and said..."gals, when you 'part tor'(date, i think..) in JC.. for about 2 years you all will be together.. then when you in UNI yr1-3, your bf in army, then when you work, you bf in UNI.. 3 years you noe.. he not with you.. he come out le.. you still must treat your bf go watch movie and stuffs coz you are working.. those boys.. such a loo-ser.." -_-.. haha.. nvm i am not a loo-ser.. wahahah..

But one thing she said which I remember damn clearly.. she said "Every new born child is selfish.. to love and care for someone is an experience that that child gains over time.. it is beyond our nature to love but we still do..." I agree.. we are all selfish beings at the start, everything we do was for ourself.. but as we grow and mature(which Miss Lee disagree we are) we start to see things in a different manner.. we want to be love even though we know that we are selfish.. so we hide the selfishness inside us and present ourself to others as a caring person and people love and care for us in return.. but then again.. we understand the feeling of not to be love.. and being humans we want to play the role of a giver (ego kicks in, i guess) and we love that we think is good enough.. and the cycle continues...

One thing she added, is that be it at JC, Poly or Uni, a first love is like an apple, you pluck an apple only when you think it is ripe.. and similarly love only when you think both of you are mature enough, when this happens.. take a bite from the apple and you taste a sweetness you can never forget in you lifetime.. however, if you pluck an unripe apple.. you will taste the sourness of the apple which will follow you all your life...

Therefore i think that be it JC, Poly or Uni or maybe even Secondary, love each other only when you think that both of you are mature enough and let go when it is time to do so.. if that relationship is really that impt, time will have its way of bringing you 2 together again..

"Love is not a highway for 2 cars.. instead in is a double lane whereby the 2 cars must learn to not stick to each other everytime"

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